Did you know when you attempt to control others behavior or their response, that is a form of witchcraft. And God does not honor the spirit of witchcraft at all. Many times we do things with good intention of helping someone, but when they don't respond the way we think they should we get upset. "Newsflash", God appointed us to help, not control, make very sure that you are not the one disappointing God with your behavior. Test comes in all type of ways, especially when we are growing in Christ, don't stunt you growth, love covers, control defeats the purpose and cause your work for God to be spoken evil of.
JAR: Its God loves that we are sharing not our owns, it ran out at the feet of JESUS. For, brethren, ye have been called unto liberty; only use not liberty for an occasion to the flesh, but by love serve one another. Gal 5:13